SMS consent proof
This page documents how With App collects SMS consent for missed check-in alerts, along with the records we retain for compliance review.
Opt-in flow
- 1A With App user selects a contact and generates a unique invite link for that (user, contact) pair.
- 2The contact opens the invite link and sees the inviter name plus a clear SMS consent disclosure.
- 3The contact confirms the phone number that received the invite (must match the invite record).
- 4The contact checks the consent box and submits to request missed check-in alerts.
- 5We send an opt-in request SMS that asks the contact to reply Y.
- 6The contact replies Y to confirm and activate consent.
- 7We store the consent activation with timestamp, source, inviter ID, and invite token.
- 8We send a confirmation SMS and only then allow alert delivery (see sample messages below).
Sample messages
Opt-in request
With App: [First name] wants to add you for missed check-in SMS alerts. Reply Y to confirm. Message and data rates may apply. Reply STOP to opt out, HELP for help.
Opt-in confirmation
With App: You're opted in for missed check-in SMS alerts for [First name]. Message and data rates may apply. Reply STOP to opt out, HELP for help.
Late check-in reminder
With App reminder: You missed your 8:30 AM check-in. Open the app to confirm you're okay: https://withapp.app
Missed check-in alert
With App alert: [First name] missed their check-in at 8:30 AM. Please reach out. Last known location: https://maps.google.com/?q=37.77,-122.41
Consent records retained
- Phone number (E.164) and consent timestamp.
- Consent source (invite link or verification).
- Inviter user ID and invite code/token for audit tracing.
- Invite link open and consented timestamps.
- Opt-out events with timestamp and source (STOP keywords or support).
Opt-out & help
- Reply Y to confirm opt-in after accepting an invite link.
- Reply STOP to opt out of all With App messages.
- Reply START to opt back in.
- Reply HELP for support instructions.
Related policies: Messaging consent, SMS help, Privacy policy, and Terms of service.
Last updated January 29, 2026